The Rhetorist

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Why I Deactivated Facebook

(S.urveillance) (T.imeline) (O.bligation) (P.rivacy)

S.urveillance – From cookies and the curious to friends abusing the space by checking up on whether things are ‘okay’ when they don’t really care but it makes them feel better if they see a post and assume something good.

T.imeline – This new feature is controversial to a lot of people and understandably so. I prefer to leave the record of my life, the archive of what I want to share with others, to God for final analysis, not Goldman Sachs.

O.bligation – That Facebook would be alongside breakfast and checking the mail is problematic. When something in life tries to add itself to basic human necessities, we should question its true value and the motives of those who are intimately, financially connected to its purposes.

P.rivacy – This is non-existent on Facebook. From advertisers to government agencies to stalkers and whomever it is who reads social media tracking data, this is a major concern.

I have friends and students from all around the world in my current Facebook account. It is truly a great way to stay connected. But they should also know how and where to find me as I am here, and have not moved my online presence. The underlying Facebook corporate model along with the stealthy following doesn’t work for me where I am right now. And yes, it is all about me.

  • http://twitter.com/lisabrowndesign Lisa Brown

    I quit Facebook too, and it feels great to have a bit of my life back! What’s interesting is how little people bother to contact you once you’ve left. I guess you see who your real friends are. Have you noticed that?

    PS – I’m a blogger too you can see why I quit Facebook at http://lisabrowndesign.blogspot.com/2013/01/i-quit-facebook.html :)

    • http://therhetorist.com/ Steve Thompson

      Lisa, I’ve noticed that, yes, it’s almost a shun. As you note on your blog, it was refreshing to get a phone call. I don’t get calls from friends often and when I do they are friends not on FB. Texting is starting to annoy me as well when in lieu of a phone conversation. It’s a cop out, says I really don’t want to talk to you, but here are a few words to placate you until this happens again. Ugh. Have also recently thought about pointing FB friends to the blog, like last time, and quitting it for good. It has never matched up to being as much fun as it was the first time around and people don’t want to connect as friends outside the FB forum it seems. I’ve cut down on my level of participation lately.

  • http://w8r.com Steve Thompson

    Malisia and Deanya, great to hear from you, and glad you found me :) > I am now just readjusting to my newfound ‘freedom’ and am amazed at how I have time to fill!!! Not saying I won’t reactivate as I miss friends but definitely not feeling led that way at this time. Will try to keep the blog up and running on the issues I addressed on Facebook. MIss you both immensely and hope you would post something here sometime.

  • deanya

    whew!  I thought it was just me you’d blocked!   But you’re right, I knew exactly where to come looking.  xo

  • Malisia

    Sad, but all true. I will miss you. You know where to find me too.

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